tag: Language

I just came back from my second daygame session in Lyon. In total I did 4 approaches in a bit less than two hours. The first set I opened in English, but then switched to French. The three following sets I only spoke French. Overall, I’m very satisfied with my results: three discussions from 3-7 minutes each and only one brush off (because she had just dialled her mom on the phone). Daygaming in French, which is not my foreign language, feels like I’m learning it all over again. Stacking and vibing is a lot harder: not only have I come up with things to say, I also have to come up with the actual grammar and vocabulary on how to say it… ...

Street Stop This was the lay that took the most work until now. I opened her on Hackescher Markt as I was walking out of the night shop. As I was stepping outside, I saw a curvy German girl with nice dark brown hair approach the entrance. The set went well and we went on an instant date by the riverside. She wanted to buy a beer to drink on her getting fired today. Ouch. We swapped numbers and ...

Language is the niche to which I hope to contribute over my daygame career. More specifically, multilingual daygame: how to leverage multiple languages to increase attraction and comfort. Besides (non-native) English, I’m fluent in (native) Russian and (non-native) German. I estimate that in a third of my sets where I reach hook point, I use more than one language. Although I’m still learning the daygame fundamentals, there are a number of observations that I’ve seen repeating over the nearly 800 sets I’ve done. This text is an early flesh-out of some of my ideas. It’s by no means a conclusive theory. Over the years, I hope to distill my accumulated insights into a practical framework. ...