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This week, the Kazakh girl I pickup up in Warsaw paid me a visit in Berlin. She stayed for 5 days during which we explored Berlin, enjoyed her cooking, and had lots of sex. Overall I’m thankful for the experience. I definitely enjoyed the steady dose of female affection, while being aware there a clear limit: after five days she’ll return to Poland. On mornings I mostly worked. In the afternoon I met up with her to show her the fun parts of Berlin. To my surprise, she pushed me out of my comfort zone by inviting me to Monster Ronson’s Ichiban Karaoke on Warschauer Street, right where I live. I’ve often walked past this place wondering what’s it like, but never found the drive to explore it by myself. The night was great! Although I completely butchered the song “Sympathy for the Devil” by the Rolling Stones, singing out loud after a few cocktails was a fulfilling experience. ...

Over the three months of my mini-relationships with my Turkish girl, I remember three memories with particular fondness. Probably because each of them involved a public blowjob. On September 7th we decided to visit the abandoned airfield Tempelhof in Berlin. We climbed onto a rolled up haystack in the middle of a vast stretch of grass. Although we could see many people around us, the closest group was at least a hundred meters away. ...

Language is the niche to which I hope to contribute over my daygame career. More specifically, multilingual daygame: how to leverage multiple languages to increase attraction and comfort. Besides (non-native) English, I’m fluent in (native) Russian and (non-native) German. I estimate that in a third of my sets where I reach hook point, I use more than one language. Although I’m still learning the daygame fundamentals, there are a number of observations that I’ve seen repeating over the nearly 800 sets I’ve done. This text is an early flesh-out of some of my ideas. It’s by no means a conclusive theory. Over the years, I hope to distill my accumulated insights into a practical framework. ...

How is this relevant to daygame? Because “safe,” meaningless, unrewarding work that only benefits the business owner fucks up my vibe. I’ve always worked in software and, more specifically, data. A fertile breeding ground for hopeless betas and scheming gammas. I always despised my colleagues working in IT: usually some scrawny Indian dude or an obese white dude that avoids eye contact as if it were a shower with soap. ...

May 2023, I was not familiar with pick up and have never heard of The Game by Neil Strauss. I know some bad men went to bars to hit on girls and “pick them up”, but had no clue that this could be done on the street in broad daylight. Quit Porn EasyPeasy → Rational Male → Nick Krauser → Tom Torero At the time, I was dedicated to cure my porn addiction through NoFap. The only resource that cured the problem for me was the “EasyPeasy method to quitting porn” (which I recommend). At the end of that book, the author recommends reading The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi as a way to “avoid bad relationships”. The author had already won my trust, and avoiding bad relationships sounded important, so I gave it a go and downloaded Rollo’s first volume. ...