After being the Nice Guy™ for over a decade, it’s only natural to let the pendulum swing far into the opposite direction while learning Daygame. I ventured into the darker side of pickup on my date and subsequent texting with this German girl. I’ve got her out on a date on Thursday evening, the same day I number closed her in Berlin Mitte. Truth be told, she was definitely on the lower end of what I’m willing to open....
I was strolling on Unter Den Linden on a Saturday. My last lay had been in Istanbul and with over 170 sets with nothing but two kisses, my vibe was a toxic mix of desperation, rage and horniness. She suddenly appeared wearing tight jeans and a crop top that exposed her flat belly. I opened with a strong, sexual vibe and noticed she responded well, so I moved in quite close to her....
I just got back from a lovely date with a 23 year old Turkish student I met on yesterdays’ session. We met up at SBahn Warschauer Straße and went for a stroll over the Sunday market on RAW Gelände. The vibe was relaxed and I felt she was happy to see me. This confirmed my suspicion that she liked me because she was eager during texting. She gave a time constraint of 40-60 minutes as she had to catch her bus to Warsaw at 16h and wanted to “complete some things before that”....
This has to be my best daygame session so far: 11 approaches with 4 contacts, all of which replied to my feeler text. I went clubbing in Berghain the night before and only got home at 06:30. Needless to say, waking up at noon I felt a bit groggy. Nevertheless, I set out on what was to be a productive daygame session. My first two opens were a bit timid. Especially, the second one completely lacked intent: shoulders hunched forwards, weak “excuse me”, supplicating hand wave....
Today I did my 500th approach. I remember walking Warschauer Straße hoping for a memorable set for this personal milestone. I was not dissapointed. She was a pretty Russian who turned out to be on her way to meet some friends. The set was a ray of hope in what was otherwise a very bleak session, as my vibe has been very flat that day. The set didn’t go anywhere because she had a boyfriend of 4 years, but as we parted ways she said “you have very beautiful eyes” as she grabbed my hand to shake it....