#12 Italian Gym Rat

Street stop and instant date I was strolling on Friedrichstraße towards Unter den Linden carried by a high momentum from an amazing earlier set. This must have been my best session so far and my vibe was off the charts. Coming toward me I saw a dark haired girl with a physique that instantly caught my eye. As an avid bodybuilder, I spent over a decade admiring athletic physiques1. It doesn’t take me longer than a second to spot someone who’s dedicated to the gym. ...

Mini Relationship with Kazakh Girl & Co.

This week, the Kazakh girl I pickup up in Warsaw paid me a visit in Berlin. She stayed for 5 days during which we explored Berlin, enjoyed her cooking, and had lots of sex. Overall I’m thankful for the experience. I definitely enjoyed the steady dose of female affection, while being aware there a clear limit: after five days she’ll return to Poland. On mornings I mostly worked. In the afternoon I met up with her to show her the fun parts of Berlin. To my surprise, she pushed me out of my comfort zone by inviting me to Monster Ronson’s Ichiban Karaoke on Warschauer Street, right where I live. I’ve often walked past this place wondering what’s it like, but never found the drive to explore it by myself. The night was great! Although I completely butchered the song “Sympathy for the Devil” by the Rolling Stones, singing out loud after a few cocktails was a fulfilling experience. ...

Three Public Blowjobs from my Turkish Girl

Over the three months of my mini-relationships with my Turkish girl, I remember three memories with particular fondness. Probably because each of them involved a public blowjob. On September 7th we decided to visit the abandoned airfield Tempelhof in Berlin. We climbed onto a rolled up haystack in the middle of a vast stretch of grass. Although we could see many people around us, the closest group was at least a hundred meters away. ...

Early Reflections on Multilingual Daygame

Language is the niche to which I hope to contribute over my daygame career. More specifically, multilingual daygame: how to leverage multiple languages to increase attraction and comfort. Besides (non-native) English, I’m fluent in (native) Russian and (non-native) German. I estimate that in a third of my sets where I reach hook point, I use more than one language. Although I’m still learning the daygame fundamentals, there are a number of observations that I’ve seen repeating over the nearly 800 sets I’ve done. This text is an early flesh-out of some of my ideas. It’s by no means a conclusive theory. Over the years, I hope to distill my accumulated insights into a practical framework. ...

Identifying as a Being a Business Owner instead of a Programmer

How is this relevant to daygame? Because “safe,” meaningless, unrewarding work that only benefits the business owner fucks up my vibe. I’ve always worked in software and, more specifically, data. A fertile breeding ground for hopeless betas and scheming gammas. I always despised my colleagues working in IT: usually some scrawny Indian dude or an obese white dude that avoids eye contact as if it were a shower with soap. ...