I suppose I can call myself a daygamer now. Today I completed my 1000th set.
As expected, there were no fireworks. Nor did the sets feel like the “1000 sets of hell”. Instead, I experienced a mild feeling of contentment and accomplishment: I set my mind to daygame, and I persisted for 562 days.
Compared to Prague in April 2024 (300 sets), I feel the following changes:
- I still feel approach anxiety but manage to overcome it consistently.
- Girls no longer question my intent: they know I’m hitting on them.
- I’m only beginning to weave in actual Game into my sets (opposed to friendly chit-chat).
- Improved non-verbals: I’m standing close, touch them, and hold strong eye contact on green lights (when the girl gives good signals).
- Inner game issues: still too focused on impressing the girl (lack of entitlement).
My goal is to reach 2000 sets by the end of 2025.