Street Stop

This was the lay that took the most work until now. I opened her on Hackescher Markt as I was walking out of the night shop. As I was stepping outside, I saw a curvy German girl with nice dark brown hair approach the entrance. The set went well and we went on an instant date by the riverside. She wanted to buy a beer to drink on her getting fired today. Ouch. We swapped numbers and

Text Game

It took me nearly four weeks (26 days) to get her out on a first date after the initial instant date. This was by far one of the best learning experiences for my text game. Over the weeks, I regularly pinged her about my day and activities, being careful not to invest too much. Once I had some momentum, I seeded a date on Friday. She proposed a Saturday instead which I took for a strong signal.

D2L

I invited her to Café Honolulu1. The beginning of the date went terrible: the conversation even stalled at a few points. Luckily, coming back from a smoke outside, I placed myself right next to her and started to escalate kino. Don’t forget: I was doing all of this in German, which is not my native language. Once we linked arms the sexual energy flared up between us. I went for the kiss right after. One point that struck me was her saying that she “doesn’t like pick up artists”, and prefers meeting guys like me normally “if there’s a vibe”2.

Close

The bounce home came with some resistance that I easily overcame with some comfort. By the end of the date, this girl trusted me completely. She knew my intentions, and just wanted reassurance that I would respect her boundaries. The sex was rather mundane, but I’m deeply satisfied with my German flag right as I’m about to leave Berlin for good. I was in awe that my German, after just four years, got good enough to talk a random girl on the street into my bed3.


  1. This was the 4th girl I took there this week. In fact, we sat on exactly the same couch as the Italian girl↩︎

  2. Interestingly, I clearly said to her right from the start that I will leave Berlin in one month. Girls truly follow their emotional desires and simply rationalize after the fact. ↩︎

  3. I wonder if my teacher, Frau Kracher, would be proud of me. ↩︎