instant date Berliner Domcafé

I spotted a beautiful, Turkish girl in her early twenties smoking a cigarette on a bench in the Lustgarten in Berlin. She looked at the ground and was probably bored. Suffering from AA, I lingered around on the grass field, outside her field of vision. She soon got up to take a picture, and walked to the fountain in the middle of the square.

Mustering all the courage I had, I opened her near the fountain. The set went awful: I stumbled over my words during my opener, and my mind blanked on the stacking, causing me to grill her with boring hairdresser questions. Her eyes opened wide and she interjected “where are you from?” - she was a yes girl. This set was decided before it even started.

After a quick back-and-forth about her picture taking, I bounced her to the Domcafé for an instant date. This girl was the most beautiful girl I ever interacted with: the perfect legs, stunning symmetrical face, long healthy dark hair, seductive lips. It turns out she was smart too. She studies psychology and her English was remarkably good, especially for a Turkish girl. Having finished our coffee, we went back to the Berliner Dome to take a selfie. We agreed to a date next Tuesday.

D2 Bar Amélie

On our second date, we met up at one of my favorite bars in Berlin. She couldn’t figure out the way to the bar from the metro. I turned it into a little game of hide-and-seek and soon met up with her. I like Bar Amélie for the cozy but dark atmosphere. We took a seat on the benches in the back. The whole date I remember her leaning forward, hanging onto my every word. It didn’t take me long to escalate the kino and go for the kiss. She happily complied.

We went for an evening stroll along the river Spree. As we walked past the James-Simon-Park we talked about our age gap of 7 years, and how we both enjoyed it. “I will keep you young” she said. I tried to bounce her to my place but she resisted. I felt that was okay, as we had confirmed mutual attraction with a kiss. We walked to the Hackescher Markt SBahn metro station where we took a train in opposite directions. She later confessed in Istanbul that she respected me for not trying to push her to come to my place.

The Kinder Surprise game

At the time I was studying Tom Torero’s Street Hustle. It mentioned playing a game to increase her investment in you. The game is simple: you tell her that you bought her an amazing, wonderful gift costing a total of … 1 Euro. She gets to have the gift, but only if she buys me an equally amazing gift for a maximum price of 1 Euro. She loved it and agreed to play.

D3 cooking at my place

We met up two days later at my place on a Thursday. I promised to cook her something nice, but we both knew we were going to have sex.

The gift she brought was a plastic coconut-shaped water bottle that I still own to this day (August 2024). I got her 3 pieces of Ferrero Rocher candy. The atmosphere was a bit more tense than on the previous two dates. I felt some performance anxiety as I was still very new to daygame, and this was by far the hottest girl I interacted with in my life pre-game.

After dinner we moved to the sofa and started kissing. She climbed on top of my lap and I started playing with her breasts. “Let’s move to the bed - it’s more comfortable” I said. She grinned and we went to the other room. I remember her sitting on the edge of my bed and saying “ooh this mattress is bouncy!”. Moments after we were having sex.

This was the hottest sex of my life: her body was absolutely divine. At 22 years, her skin was smooth as a peach, and the natural curves of her hips took my breath away. In spite of that, I felt an incredible wave of sadness rush over me as she lay on my chest: “I can’t believe I’ve missed out on so much beautify for almost thirty years of my life”. But the biggest sting came from the realization that my Disney Romantic view of women was not correct: this girl agreed to sleep with me less than a week after saying “hello” to her - and she was a “good” girl.

I will never forget this night that shattered my world view.