At the very end of a productive daygame session with two Berlin wings, we stumbled upon a dreamy tourist girl. She was slowly strolling in front of us in a slight zig-zag, seemingly lost in thoughts. Essentially, she was screaming to be opened. Given that it was my turn, I obliged her. Turns out she was a girl from the UK. After a pretty sexual set, I bounced her to a nearby Späti1 to get a beer and chill by the riverside on an instant date....
You know, the fascinating thing about daygame is that it puts me in contact with girls far outside my own social stratum. This week I closed1 an Italian girl who was a bit quiet. Very introverted. Not a “good girl”: she later confessed some extreme sexual adventures. She encountered some genuine tragedy in life (deaths of relatives, suicide, violence, etc.). I’ve had my issues but my life was a walk in the park compared to hers....
Only after doing 500+ daygame sets, did I realize how badly I was weaseling in business. If I was as motivated in cold calling prospects as cold approaching students, I’d be set for life. In addition, after reading both Nick Krauser’s and John Bodi’s memoirs, did I realize how Gamma I was1 at work: God complex: everyone in this office is a retard except me. I work better alone (because I don’t want to face the reality that some colleagues are smarter and/or more skilled than me)....
Street Stop This was the lay that took the most work until now. I opened her on Hackescher Markt as I was walking out of the night shop. As I was stepping outside, I saw a curvy German girl with nice dark brown hair approach the entrance. The set went well and we went on an instant date by the riverside. She wanted to buy a beer to drink on her getting fired today....
Street stop and instant date I was strolling on Friedrichstraße towards Unter den Linden carried by a high momentum from an amazing earlier set. This must have been my best session so far and my vibe was off the charts. Coming toward me I saw a dark haired girl with a physique that instantly caught my eye. As an avid bodybuilder, I spent over a decade admiring athletic physiques1. It doesn’t take me longer than a second to spot someone who’s dedicated to the gym....
This week, the Kazakh girl I pickup up in Warsaw paid me a visit in Berlin. She stayed for 5 days during which we explored Berlin, enjoyed her cooking, and had lots of sex. Overall I’m thankful for the experience. I definitely enjoyed the steady dose of female affection, while being aware there a clear limit: after five days she’ll return to Poland. On mornings I mostly worked. In the afternoon I met up with her to show her the fun parts of Berlin....
Over the three months of my mini-relationships with my Turkish girl, I remember three memories with particular fondness. Probably because each of them involved a public blowjob. On September 7th we decided to visit the abandoned airfield Tempelhof in Berlin. We climbed onto a rolled up haystack in the middle of a vast stretch of grass. Although we could see many people around us, the closest group was at least a hundred meters away....
Language is the niche to which I hope to contribute over my daygame career. More specifically, multilingual daygame: how to leverage multiple languages to increase attraction and comfort. Besides (non-native) English, I’m fluent in (native) Russian and (non-native) German. I estimate that in a third of my sets where I reach hook point, I use more than one language. Although I’m still learning the daygame fundamentals, there are a number of observations that I’ve seen repeating over the nearly 800 sets I’ve done....
How is this relevant to daygame? Because “safe,” meaningless, unrewarding work that only benefits the business owner fucks up my vibe. I’ve always worked in software and, more specifically, data. A fertile breeding ground for hopeless betas and scheming gammas. I always despised my colleagues working in IT: usually some scrawny Indian dude or an obese white dude that avoids eye contact as if it were a shower with soap....
May 2023, I was not familiar with pick up and have never heard of The Game by Neil Strauss. I know some bad men went to bars to hit on girls and “pick them up”, but had no clue that this could be done on the street in broad daylight. Quit Porn EasyPeasy → Rational Male → Nick Krauser → Tom Torero At the time, I was dedicated to cure my porn addiction through NoFap....