Today’s session was a lot less impactful than yesterday’s: 3 sets with zero numbers. I just wasn’t into it. My vibe was flat after over 100 cold calls on my sales job. I suppose getting rejected by prospects all day also drains the same energy I use for daygame. To be fair, I’ve also restarted my cut and was possibly feeling flat due to my calorie deficit.
I became mindful of a problem that was brought onto my attention during my coaching with Krauser: I need too much confirmation from the girl.
Unless a girl responds positively and gives me green lights, I often shut myself down and walk away - sometimes leaving the girl bewildered about why I suddenly left. Sometimes I’m just not feeling it. But other times I eject from sets where the girl gives me the look, just because she’s silent.
Today I had a set like that. I opened a girl standing outside a shop, waiting on her friend. The open was flat, distance too far, vibe non-sexual. But there was something about her eyes: opened wide and locked into me. I only noticed this as I already told her goodbye and disengaged.
About half an hour later I walked past her in a shopping street. I ignored her but could feel her eyes staring at me. A clear IOI that I didn’t act upon because I had already binned the session.