category: Field Report

I’m daygaming in the capital of Belgium, the country I lived in most of my life. During the day I’m working in a cow-working space and popping out for a one-to-two-hour session each day. This allowed me to rack up 20 sets in one week resulting in a handful of numbers, most of them flakey, and one idate. The idate was an Italian PhD-student who came to Brussels to sign up at a local university. She was leaving the next day. Unfortunately, I couldn’t clear logistics: I was scheduled to have dinner and drinks with a mate that evening. I tried to catch her afterward to no avail. ...

Back in Warsaw! Despite the snowy streets, it feels good to be back here, mostly to see my mates. After patting myself on the back for 6 gym and 3 boxing sessions, I realized I had only done 5 sets the entire week. “Right, I’m meta-weaseling1. Enough “building value” - time to hit the streets. I’m happy to say I found my daygame-mojo again. Winging with the guys rekindled my love for daygame that somewhat lessened during a harsh winter in Prague. Today my session was phenomenal: I opened just two sets, got both the numbers, both replied within 30 minutes on the feeler text. Happy days! ...

The writing on this one is a bit crude because I’m frustrated as hell as I write, and I don’t want to edit the text In the span of just two days, I had three occasions where I felt a deep disdain for women: An encounter with an annoying career woman at my co-working An insufferable date A date that flaked without cancelling The career woman was ugly and the story boring. For my own learning, I want to focus on the date. ...

I’m currently struggling through a pretty long dry spell in terms of new daygame successes. I know for a fact that I’ve talked to girls on the street, and fucked them shortly after - sometimes in a matter of hours. In moments like these, as the memories of previous conquests are distant, this challenge feels insurmountable. My mind is playing tricks on me. Luckily, all it takes is one small win to regain confidence. Such a win happened today. ...

I’m returned to Prague after my first residential coaching there in April 2024. This time I’m on my own, staying for a month to focus on: Gym and nutrition: getting below 10% body fat again Remote work Daygame I arrived on Thursday and until Sunday did 27 sets in total. Not bad at all considering I’ve been a lot more picky with my sets compared to the coaching. I’m noticing quite a few improvements compared to last year: ...